Kalian sering mendengar tentang konsep “take and give” kan? Beberapa waktu lalu saya juga terlibat perbincangan mengenai ini dengan sahabat saya. Menurutnya hubungan haruslah “take and give” agar seimbang, katanya. Saya yakin banyak juga yang mengiyakan apa pendapatnya. Saya pun dulu mengira demikian. Take and give menjadi wajar dalam suatu hubungan. Hubungan apa saja, entah dengan pasangan, orang tua, sahabat, dalam pekerjaan ataupun yang lainnya. Namun seiring waktu, saya belajar..nampaknya “take and give” menjadi semakin terlalu memberatkan. Kemudian saya belajar untuk bergeser ke dalam konsep “Give and Give” “Oh iya iya..kamu kan udah nggak butuh “take” lagi ya? “ kilah sahabat saya. Nggak begitu juga sih, hanya saja..memberi dengan rumusan memberi dan harus menerima nampaknya menjadi semakin berat. Bukahlah lebih ringan bila bergeser menjadi memberi dan memberi, tak perlu tanpa banyak memikirkan tentang harus menerima. Menurut saya, ada perbedaan fundamental di antara keduanya. Mungkin perbedaan itu terletak pada niat. Niat dalam hati, jarang sekali kita meneliti niat-niat dalam hati kita pada apa yang kita kerjakan, apa yang kita berikan. Padahal niat, yang tersembunyi itu, seringkali menjadi landasan mengapa kita berbuat sesuatu. Memberi dengan berharap menerima, bukankah menjadi begitu memberatkan? “If all your “giving” is about “getting” think how fearful you will become?” Susan Jeffers Jika kita memberikan sesuatu, dengan harapan dapat menerima..bayangkan betapa diri menjadi dihinggapi banyak kecemasan, banyak pengharapan, dan banyak kekecewaan ketika yang terjadi tidak sesuai dengan harapmu. Sedangkan memberi dengan sekedar memberi karena kasih, bukankah terasa makin meringankan? Ini bukan bahasan tentang sok mulia atau sebagainya. Ini soal ketentraman jiwa. Bukankah dengan memberi saja tanpa harap menerima membuat perasaan kita menjadi semakin baik dan semakin bahagia? Sesederhana itu sebenarnya. Saya jadi ingat saat mendengarkan sebuah ceramah tahun lalu tentang zakat, tentang memberikan sebagian rizki kita. Baru kala itu saya mendengar sebuah pernyataan yang tak biasa saya dengarkan mengenai ceramah-ceramah zakat. Dulu sering kali saya mendengar ceramah seperti misalnya Zakat itu bisa melancarkan rejeki, mana ada kau lihat orang zakat atau memberi lalu jadi bangkrut? Atau kalau sedekah sekian bisa lekas kaya, bisa cepat dapat jodoh..bla bla..bla.. Lalu kita memberi ataupun berbuat baik karena ada iming iming belaka? Ah, bukankah sering kalian mendengar kalimat-kalimat seperti di atas itu? “Manfaat zakat yang utama itu menentramkan hati,” saya masih ingat kalimat itu diucapkan saat ceramah. Nyes rasanya, kenapa jarang sekali yang menyentuh sisi ini? Memberikan sesuatu ternyata pada dasarnya membuat diri menjadi semakin bahagia. Semakin ringan, dan semakin tentram. Memberi dalam hal ini bukan hanya memberikan barang, uang atau materi, tapi juga memberikan waktu, informasi, perhatian, kasih sayang. When you give from a place of love, rather than from a place of expectation. More usually comes back to us than we could ever have imagined Susan Jeffers Yah, walaupun seringkali dengan memberi kita menerima jauh..jauh lebih banyak daripada apa yang kita berikan, namun rasanya akan lebih meringankan dan menentramkan bila memberi tanpa pengharapan. “Nggak fair dong, misal dalam hubungan..rasanya kita tuh kasih..kasih terus. Memberikan banyak kompromi, kasih perhatian..kasih hadiah bla..bla..tapi dianya kayak nggak tau terimakasih. Dianya nggak berubah juga.” Mungkin ada ya yang selintasan berpikir demikian. Atau mengalami hal yang demikian. Menurut saya sih, memberi itu satu hal..kemudian bagaimana engkau memutuskan perlakuan ataupun keputusan pada orang lain itu sepenuhnya adalah hal yang lain lagi. Ada pertimbangan, ada logika, ada nurani. Dan itu terserah bagaimana pilihan pilihan yang kamu ambil. Hubungan bukan bisnis sih, kalau menurut saya. Well, kadang mungkin konsep ini terlihat sok baik dan sok polos..padahal sih intinya cuma ingin membuat diri lebih ringan dan lebih tentram. Saya pun masih belajar, kadang konsep masih hanya dalam tataran konsep, sedangkan praktiknya masih tersuruk suruk. Namun bukankah yang terpenting kita belajar dan terus berjalan? Mari. Glasgow menjelang maghrib di musim gugur. Dengan kadar rindu yang agak terlalu. 3 Okt 2015.

We use verbs like have, take, make and give with nouns like a shower, a drink, a mistake, advice I took a shower. I had a drink. I made a mistake. He gave me some advice. With verbs like this the important part of the meaning is taken out of the verb and put into the noun. We usually put adjectives in front of the nouns I took a hot shower. I had a cool drink. I made a silly mistake. He gave me some good advice. Have We use have with Food and drink a meal, lunch, dinner etc. Communicating a chat, a conversation etc. Washing a bath, a shower... Breaks a holiday, a rest, a break... Arguments an argument, a fight, a disagreement... We can also use have with nouns made from verbs Have a drink, swim, bite... Take We use take with Washing a bath, a shower... Breaks a holiday, a rest, a break... We also use take with these expressions Take care, take the trouble, take care of, take a photograph. And with some verbs formed from nouns Take a walk, take a look. Give We use give with Facial expressions a smile, a laugh, a look... Making noises a shout, a cry, a scream... Hitting a kick, a punch, a slap... Actions like a hug, a kiss... Communicating some advice, an answer, a speech, a talk, a report... Make We use make with Sounds and speaking a comment, a noise, a promise, a suggestion... Plans a choice, a decision, plans, a date, an appointment... The important thing when practising using these verbs is to make a note of the verb used with the nouns. In other words remember the combination of verb and the noun it is used with. Lesson by Tristan, teacher at EC Malta English school Choose the correct verb for these sentences 1 - He ___ me some excellent - Why don't you ___ a nice cool long drink?3 - After a whole day at work I got home and ___ a long hot - He realised that he had ___ a serious - I ___ a nice relaxing holiday in - When we were on holiday in London we ___ loads of - You can see the mountains from this window. Come and ___ a - Jane is very organised. She’s the one who ___ plans for our - They ___ a serious fight because of the new marketing - Thank you for ___ the trouble to come over to discuss the - We ___ dinner at that fabulous Italian - I can't wait for it to be warm enough to ___ a swim in the - The CEO ___ a motivating speech at the annual - She ___ him such a seductive smile that he was speechless for a while. Bookmark/Search this post with

Orang-orang juga menerjemahkan Salah satu dari sekian banyak pelajaran adalah the power of take and of the greatest lessons we have learned is the importance of give and hubungan yang sehat adalah hubungan yangA healthy relationship is about give and give,Pendekatan politik dalam ini tidak selalu terkait dengan negosiasi yang bersifat take and and give antar Negara tentang manajemen pada saat ini sedang and give between States concerning the management is currently access doesn'tDemikian seterusnya sampai tiap peserta dapat saling memberi danAnd so on until each participant can give each other andNamun, pihaknya juga menjelaskan mereka tidak akan mengupayakan solusi terhadap gesekan perdagangan dengan membuat konsensi tidak masuk akal,dan kesepakatan apapun harus melibatkan timbal balik take and give dari kedua belah pihak, it has also made it clear that it will not seek a solution to the trade frictions by making unreasonable concessions,and any agreement has to involve give and take from both sides,” it said.

PERNAHKAH kamu mendengar istilah take and give? Istilah ini semacam konsep dalam menjalin hubungan yang seimbang. Apabila seseorang memberi, maka ia harus menerima imbalannya. Mungkin take and give akan terdengar lebih halus dibandingkan ungkapan tak ada yang gratis di dunia ini, semuanya harus di bayar!’ Begitulah kira-kira. Lalu, apakah dalam Islam konsep hubungan yang seimbang itu harus memakai rumus take and give? Coba kita lihat konsep infak’ dan shadaqah’ dalam Islam. Apakah si penerima infak harus membayar dengan sesuatu? Tentu tidak. Apakah si pemberi infak akan rugi jika hanya memberi tanpa menerima apapun? Kita semua tahu jawabannya. Saling memberi sangat dianjurkan dalam Islam. Tetapi saling mengharap imbalan dalam pemberian bukanlah ajaran Islam. Mungkin kita masih ingat hadis tentang memberi hadiah. “Saling memberi hadiahlah kalian niscaya kalian akan saling mencintai.” HR. Al-Bukhari Tentu saja saling memberi hadiah juga ada batasan syari’ahnya. Tidak semua pemberian itu baik dan boleh di terima. Pemberian yang bersifat sogokan atau semacamnya adalah haram. Seperti dalam kisah Nabi sulaiman AS dalam An-Naml 35-36. Nabi Sulaiman menolak hadiah dari Ratu Bilqis ketika sang Nabi mendakwahkan Islam kepada kerajaan Ratu Saba’. Hadiah itu di maksudkan untuk menolak ajaran sang Nabi, agar mereka tetap menyembah matahari. Begitulah indahnya hubungan yang dibangun karena Allah. Bukan karena ada maunya. Tak akan pernah ada kekecewaan karena tak pernah mengharapkan. Bukankah hal yang membuat kita kecewa adalah sebuah pengharapan yang tidak terpenuhi? Lalu, apa yang akan membuat kita kecewa jika tak pernah sekalipun berharap?[Nur Halimah]. Komentar sepenuhnya menjadi tanggung jawab komentator seperti diatur dalam UU ITE. JernihBerkomentar

give and take1. noun The exchange of mutual compromise or concession; negotiation, bargaining, and/or compromise. Sometimes hyphenated. There's always going to be some give and take when new legislation is introduced in politics. You won't get far in this business if you aren't willing to allow a little give-and-take with your noun Lively two-way discussion; the exchange of ideas or conversation. Sometimes hyphenated. The purpose of this meeting is to have a bit of give-and-take between employees and the management for ideas on the direction of the verb To compromise or concede; to negotiate, bargain, and/or compromise. You have to be willing to give and take when you enter politics, otherwise nothing will ever get verb To engage in lively two-way discussion; to exchange ideas or conversation. The university has set up an online forum so students are able to give and take with the Dictionary of Idioms. © 2022 Farlex, Inc, all rights of give-and-take 1. Fig. a lot of two-way discussion. It was a good meeting. There was a lot of give-and-take, and we all learned. 2. Fig. a lot of negotiating and bargaining. After an afternoon of give-and-take, we were finally able to put all the details into an Dictionary of American Idioms and Phrasal Verbs. © 2002 by The McGraw-Hill Companies, and take1. The practice of compromise, as in Every contract involves some give and take. This expression was first recorded in 1778, although the verbal idiom, to give and take, was used from the early 1500s. 2. Lively exchange of ideas or conversation, as in The legislature is famous for raucous give and take. [Second half of 1800s] The American Heritage Dictionary of Idioms by Christine Ammer. Copyright © 2003, 1997 by The Christine Ammer 1992 Trust. Published by Houghton Mifflin Harcourt Publishing Company. All rights and take COMMON If you talk about give and take, you mean the way in which two people or groups in a relationship accept that they cannot have everything that they want and that they must sometimes give the other person or group what they want. All good partnerships involve a bit of give and take. There is usually a fair amount of give and take in a trading relationship. Note You can use give-and-take before a noun. You never get everything you wish for in these give-and-take COBUILD Idioms Dictionary, 3rd ed. © HarperCollins Publishers 2012give and take 1 mutual concessions and compromises. 2 exchange of words and Partner Idioms Dictionary © Farlex 2017ˌgive and ˈtake be willing to listen to other people’s wishes and points of view and to change your demands, if this is necessary If we want this marriage to be successful, we both have to learn to give and take. ▶ ˌgive and ˈtake noun We can’t all expect to have exactly what we want. There has to be some give and Partner Idioms Dictionary © Farlex 2017give and takeMutual concessions; a fair exchange. Used as a noun, this expression dates from the eighteenth century. The verbal form, to give and take, dates from the early 1500s. One writer believes the phrase originated in British racing and denoted a prize for a race in which larger horses carried more weight and smaller ones less than the standard. “Give and take is fair in all nations,” wrote Fannie Burney in Evelina 1778, echoed in T. C. Haliburton’s Wise Saws 1843 “Give and take, live and let live, that’s the word.” See also live and let Dictionary of Clichés by Christine Ammer Copyright © 2013 by Christine AmmerSee alsolot of give-and-takea game of give and takefind a happy mediummediumstrike a happy mediumhit a happy mediumreach an accordnaughty but nicereach an agreementround robin

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